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Monday, May 22, 2023

How To Avoid Ego

Ego avoiding

Ego is the enemy of happiness. Many times ego is the cause of unhappiness. Ego destroys and ruins the human life. Human behavior and nature is different. Everyone feels and wants to live differently. They feels superior. Ego doesn’t visible. But is destroys the human development. Many people visits different pilgrims. It is not for enlightenment. They have hidden expectations. Egoistic person praise 
himself. Self-glorification is not good. One should no spend his time for blowing his own trumpet. He does not achieve anything in life. When a person leave his ego definitely one should uplift in life. Otherwise success goes to another person who is not egoistic person.

What is ego ?

Ego is a feeling. This feeling makes him to feel superior than others. The feeling “I” exists in egoistic persons. “I” feeling is hidden in egoistic person. It destroys and spoils human behavior and he become enemy to society.

Whom we find ego ?

Naturally, we found ego with people who are rich. The causes for ego is elicited caste, money, power, creates superior feeling in human. 

Often, the egoistic persons says :

“I am supreme, whatever I say is the final”.

“If I would not have been there this work would not have been done”.

Egoistic Feeling

This statement shows the egoistic feeling. Nobody can do this work, I myself have been done. All are equal and at the same everybody have same brain. If you strain your brain, you also become clever. Remember the statement “Strain your brain”.

How To Avoid Ego

Flattering People

Successful man is flying in the sky. Society makes him to egoistic. When he got success, society is praising his ability, capacity. But you only put your efforts to earn creditability. Then don’t give much significance to flattering people. You humbly accept the success.

Self Glorification

An egoistic person will not have firm mind. He is not modest. He is not a  perfectionist. Because he never achieves perfection. Don’t believe in self-glorification. He destroys your image, your creditability, your efforts.

Many Achievers

Egoistic person never serve others. Remember thousands of people are in good position, better education, more money, high social status. You are not one and only achiever in this world. Many achievers are also here to serve the nation. They are modest, polite, positive thinkers. Ego is a negative
feeling.

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